You are somebody. Take control of your life. Be creative in understanding and accepting you. Nobody has anything to throw at you when you accept who you were and who you are becoming. Become that person and pray for forgiveness and strength.
You are set free when you allow your change to come knowing that even in “Change” that you are not perfect. You must continue to ask for forgiveness and to forgive yourself daily for things you’ve done, your thoughts, or even actions that hurt others that you don’t believe are true.
This is when you can recognize the growth in you and realize that you are new. You must work to be better. To be a better person and to be used humbly by God.